Wednesday, 29 May 2013

Costa Rica... Que Rica Rica

Sow the seed of love and let it grow to touch every soul that crosses your path.

Goodness knows I try to stay on top of things and only travel paths that lead me to a greener and more positive pasture, but there are moments of feeling let down by others, which, upon reflection, goes back to the ego. Sometimes, I feel disappointed in myself and those close to me, so with this in mind, I booked a yoga retreat in Costa Rica to go on my own and see if I can yet achieve another higher level of being.  

On the second morning of our arrival to San Jose, the bus journey began at dawn after an early breakfast, which seemed convenient as jet lag had already kicked in. I settled into the front seat next to the driver and watched abrupt scenes of the capital as we drove by. However, once we left the hustle and bustle of the city centre, the scenery that followed was breathtaking as the green surroundings of mountainous roads began to emerge. Apart from a short visit to the Krama yoga centre, San José is still to be discovered. This time, the focus remained on experiencing the wildlife of Costa Rica in the mountains for three days and the beach for the rest of our six nights' stay. Hence, the San Isidro Valley was the designated destination in Canaán de Rivas, alongside the Chirripo River, where Angus awaited us with a deliciously prepared lunch for our hungry group of ten.  

At first, the diva in me awoke when I saw the room on the lower floor, too close to the wildlife which surrounded us, but upon reflection, the whole point of this trip was to further heighten my tolerance and acceptance of situations as they arose. Let's face it: my room was great, simply decorated with a balcony, a rocking chair, and views only the heavens above could provide; it was all lush green, with birds singing along and the sound of the river below running in the background. I went back to Tania, who was in charge of the retreat, and told her:
"Darling, I must be out of my mind to complain about my room. This is the whole point of me being here. Actually, I love it and am grateful."

On the first day, I walked down to the pool after eating; there was a chill in the air, and the clouds were hovering above. It was too cold to dip, so I settled on a large rock by the river, absorbing my new environment's beauty and sounds. It brought new meaning to the word wholesome. As I sat there taking in nature's artistry, Tania's smiley face appeared from the woods, and she sat next to me on the boulder while the beginning of our friendship started to shape. Soon after, it was time to prepare for a yoga session in a spacious studio with no windows but all open air. Our instructor was called Kenny G. Needless to say, I had not read the program and hence had yet to learn what to expect from the program nor this young all-American boy with short, curly blonde hair who seemed well rounded. 

This was another case of me booking a holiday as I had done in the past, checking in to the spa retreat in Spain last Easter on Juliette's recommendation, and getting there to find out I had booked myself on a boot camp! I truly enjoyed the following challenging week. Dare me into a challenge any day.

Everything I heard from other attendees on this retreat about Kenny G's marvellous method of teaching yoga was true and more. Despite the three times-a-week pilates reformer classes and boxing before travels, some positions proved strenuous. Although I began my first yoga session at seventeen, which goes back a while (long before it became fashionable), the regular practice has been far from my schedule apart from when holidaying in India a while back, then Spain and Bali the year before. After the two-hour class, another tasteful dinner was served, and everyone was ready to retire to their rooms. There were too many unknown creatures hanging around in the woods outside, including varied bugs, which I preferred to avoid getting too acquainted with; hence, going to bed was the only remaining option.

Meditation and Yoga Centre

Waking up early for the 6:00am meditation in the semi-open-air yoga hut was pure pleasure, as serenity and calmness filled the space with sounds of nature. Looking back at the lovely people I met during my ten-day stay, it took me a while to get to know each one as, at first, it is only an image of a person we perceive according to how we feel and not who they really are. Then again, it also has something to do with energy flow. 

On the second day in the mountains, we walked to the Jardines Secretos, only a few minutes up the road, and the guide walked us through this Secret Garden. It was planted with Bird of Paradise flowers of different kinds, orchids growing out of trees, water lilies, and many other plants whose names I only wish I could remember.




Colourful Secret Garden

Orchids growing on trees.


Most unusual flower!



















In the afternoon, I was still not tempted to swim in the pool because of the chill in the air, so I sat on the porch and read while, every now and then, being distracted by the lush green scenery and the sound of the birds. As the sunsets were as early as 17:30, everyone headed to their rooms as darkness descended upon us after a healthy dinner. Even I went to bed at an unheard hour of 10 or 11pm! That would be after a cheeky cigarette with my new partner in crime, Kasey. 

On another early morning, we were loaded into the truck (literally), myself in the front seat (being older does have its advantages) and the others standing behind in the open, going on an adventure trail, a short drive away, to the National Park; Cloud Bridge where I barely managed to take a photo. If I had known the walk would be so challenging and mainly uphill, the choice of going might have been left out of my schedule, alas, there I was breathless trying to keep up with the rest of a very fit entourage. And so, huffing and puffing, I struggled. There, amid the wilderness, grew plants I had never seen before. The guide who stayed behind to accompany me towards the end of the trek (as everyone else was far ahead) picked a particular fruit from the tree, slightly larger than a pea and before he had mentioned the name, I picked some from the tree and sucked out the white, sweet and sticky gel-like substance with tiny black seeds. The guide said:
"We call this fruit mucus."
I would have spat the substance out if I hadn't swallowed it so quickly!

Even in Spanish, I knew exactly what he meant as it felt exactly that; yes, mucusy but sweet. Urgh! On reflection, though, I liked the taste, especially when he mentioned how much protein it contains and having climbed mountains (well, in my book), I needed all the energy coming my way. There were waterfalls almost everywhere we looked; the only shame was that everyone seemed in such a hurry that I did not get to enjoy the scenery that surrounded us entirely. Glad that was over when it was, and the few hours of ascending had left us hungry for lunch, a visit to a trout farm, where we fished for our meal, literally. The last fish I happened to catch for that meal was my first ever!

Trout Fishing in Costa Rica


Afterwards, Angus offered to show us around their home, where Tania and their cute kitten awaited us. Oh, how I admire people living amid a jungle, mainly in an open space where monkeys often pass you by on nearby trees, and seeing a panther or a snake is no risk to anyone. To live this lifestyle in the ten days I did was a massive step towards being free in more ways than simply in mind and spirit. In my book, this was getting out of any comfort zone imaginable.


A room with a view. And what a view!
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Upon returning to the Chirripo Retreat, another yoga session was scheduled before an early supper. Afterwards, we returned to our rooms to pack and get ready for another bus journey to Osa Peninsula early in the morning. This time, the adventures followed us to the beach. 
 To be continued ...
 
 
 



Wednesday, 22 May 2013

Miami... Yummy Yummy

Life is a journey, and along the way, the inspiring people I meet bring more meaning to my life. First, I get to know each one and hear short stories of the paths they have crossed to reach where they are. Then, I realise how different their stories are yet how vulnerable we all are.

Two weeks away from my blog, while climbing another step towards a worldly understanding on an incredible trip, I got home yesterday (Monday) morning after an almost twenty-four-hour journey through three plane rides!  
First came the incredible 40-minute ride on a six-seater, one-engine plane from Osa Peninsula, taking us to San Jose's international airport. We did not even have to turn our mobiles off! The pilot simply asked us to buckle ourselves in our tight seats, with the smaller luggage in between each row of two people and off he went off the smallest runway I have ever seen. No checking in ... Nada (nothing as the Spanish say). I was thrilled at the experience and did not even realise Tracey, who was sitting next to the pilot, was handed the wheels at some stage to have a go at driving the 1976 plane, bandaged in some parts with masking tape; as my young travel companions Livia and Molly pointed out while deteriorating in their shades of white every time I looked back at them in the last two seats. I did, however, notice the propeller plane move distinctly in mid-air at some stage while the pilot turned towards Tracey, explaining something that could not be heard from where I was seated in the middle row. Honestly, I did not think for one second he would be giving piloting lessons to a beginner while having other passengers abroad! Oh well, they say, 'What you don't know won't hurt you'. So oblivious to all this, I recall asking Tracey to turn around and take a photo of us while she answered something in surprise that was best not repeated. So, I realised she must be busy somehow. My only concern began when I realised there was no toilet on board, and thrown into somewhat of a panic over that, I tried having a go at writing unsuccessfully, so the next best thing was to go through my Tatler magazine! My friends in the back row seemed to have noticed in surprise and took a photo!


Oh well, obviously, we arrived in San Jose safe and sound. After a three-hour recovery wait, the flight to Miami was exposed to more turbulence, far worse than the propeller plane experience, flying at 8,500 ft above the ocean, jungles, and some mountains at 8,100 ft only a few footsteps below us!  
The plane we were booked on went into bankruptcy only two days before our schedule, and this was the only option to get us to our outgoing flights on time.

The most exciting plane ride ever!


Flying at 8,500 ft. Could have almost jumped off the plane if necessary!

Back in London, before leaving for the yoga retreat to Costa Rica, I had the good fortune of meeting up at home with Jill one evening after an emotional last day at her present job and spending hours catching up on past, present and plans for the future to come. Discussing ideas with friends who understand your goals is always encouraging. The Friday arrival of my friend Lori never came to flourish as somehow expected, so instead, Kristel and I headed to Anglesea Arms' neighbourhood pub, followed by dinner at Patara's always pleasing Thai restaurant and home before midnight for a new Prince charming turning up with the right shoe at my doorstep! Thank goodness for the pre-travel waxing appointment earlier. Haha.
Saturday's birthday party at Dabbous was an invite from Sydney to help celebrate his special night with his partner Denzel and an entourage of their delightful friends, with whom I got the pleasure of mingling and ended a great night with the late appearance of Ernest and Kelly's superb company. I met two lovely sisters who were so loving towards one another. It was beautiful to see.

Monday was a Bank holiday, and my flight for a three-day stopover in Miami had arrived, staying with a dear friend, Clarence and his charming partner, Tiago. I had met Clarence years ago through Lady Saba in London, where I drove him to a house party and did not get him back home till after 2:00am. The latest hour he had ever been out, probably in his life. Then, I saw him again in Miami not long after, where he took me to a Christmas Eve dinner at a couple who owned a well-known dermatology practice in town. Only to call him two days later in desperation, where he accompanied me to that same couple's surgery to find out I had come down with shingles due to stress apparently. Me, stress?!? When we left, as Clarence drove me back to imprison myself in the hotel room for the following three or four days, he sang: 
"Shingle bells, shingle bells ... Shingle all the way!"
It was Christmas, after all, and my friend's sense of humour broke outbursts of laughter, which I could barely endure with the pain my body was going through. 
This time, I was staying at his magnificent apartment facing the marina in the Coconut Grove area. On my first night, as Zuma's was full, we visited the Shokudo Japanese restaurant while driving by the attractive shop windows of the Design District. The days were spent in various shopping malls with Tiago, where his patience must be fully credited with the hours spent purchasing Victoria's Secret goods and looking for hiking shoes, a headlamp and more gear to accommodate my next trip at a yoga retreat in Costa Rica. The cheeky stop at Misha's famous cupcake shop was naughty and nice.

Jet lag - Sunrise from my room

On the second night, Clarence booked a table at the outdoor Cecconi restaurant, set in the garden of the Soho Beach House, lit gently with Christmassy-looking tree lights. The only table not occupied by women or couples happened to be next to us of four men while we tried to figure out their sexuality. In a garden of mainly Eves, the Adams next door must have simply been 'very' married, as I presumed, as they were only interested in their own company. On my last night, my hosts threw a dinner party, where Tiago cooked a delicious Brazilian meal with red wine. The dermatologist friend of Clarence, who had diagnosed my shingles, happened to be single now and was invited to join an international group of their friends.

Over all the years of travelling, so many trips to Miami, from teenage days to family visits to Disney, the shingles episode, the most fun time with the girls' Pigs on tour at the music conference, and this time round, a very heartfelt, special period spent in the company of two amusing friends, each in their own extraordinary way, have helped open a distinguished place in my heart over this city. Thanks to the generous hospitality of my wonderful hosts, Miami has grown on me again.

Saying goodbye to Tiago at the airport was sad. Through an upgrade on the Miami flight to San Jose, I met Jones, who mentioned going to university decades ago in the US with a lady he named, who happens to be a friend of mine! What a small world we live in.

In San Jose, Conversing in my poquito (little) Spanish with the lady taxi driver from the Costa Rican capital's airport to the Hotel Luisiana in Santa Ana was a great way to start my journey. Once we arrived, Tania's warm welcome awaited me. Our afternoon began with checking in, meeting the few arrivals, and heading straight into a challenging yoga class at the Krama Centre. What did I let myself in again for?! An early dinner afterwards while I seemed in a haze as to who anyone was... All will be sunk in during the coming days...

I am back in London now, and my family is visiting. I am not sure where the time is going, but it sure is passing very fast, and I need to get over my jet lag and sleep!

My every cell is filled with the love I feel all around me, and I cannot wait to tell you what a life-changing experience this fun-filled yoga retreat was yet again. Until next time... Na night.